Question
My child has been experiencing stomach pain or a lack of energy every morning, and doesn’t want to go to school. However, at home, they seem perfectly fine with no discomfort. I’ve consulted with the teacher at school and they haven’t noticed any abnormalities. They have good relationships with classmates, aren’t being bullied, and their academic performance isn’t poor. They can keep up with the school’s pace. We’ve had their gastrointestinal system thoroughly checked at the hospital, and even the psychologist couldn’t find any significant issues. Recently, I’ve noticed they’re sleeping very late for their afternoon naps, and I’m not sure what they’re doing as they stay in bed with the lights off, and when I ask them what they’re doing, they don’t say anything. Can someone help me? I’m desperate.
Answer
This situation seems a bit more complex. First, it’s important to have more communication with them and ask more questions about whether they’ve encountered any heavy emotional impacts recently or had any run-ins with other classmates. Additionally, when organizing their materials, pay attention to any unusual items on the bed. Moreover, you can take them for their afternoon naps and stay with them for a few nights. Take advantage of when their mood changes to carefully inquire about their situation and engage in more communication. This is currently the best way to address the issue.